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  1. concernedwife

    Does this mean i was found unfit?

    my husband got the same message and he was found FIT, weird. [this was over a year ago]
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    could use some help what to expect with VA ratings

    for those of you who may not know, my husband was put up for a medboard a little over a year ago and was found FIT 2-3 times regardless of his medical documentation and statements from multiple medical professionals, commander, chief and co-workers. he was put up for a medboard due to daily...
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    long time no see - needing help

    thank you, @johnbgately - we truly appreciate your input and help!
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    long time no see - needing help

    i'm not sure how else to put it, sorry. when the lawyer stated that the neuro was waiting to be called so he could 'testify' on my husband's behalf - the members of the board said that it wouldn't be necessary - then they asked the lawyer to start his...thing....then my husband was asked...
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    Inappropriate questions at FPEB

    so happy to see someone else post about this on here, finally. my husband went through the same thing with his FPEB members and some of the insane things they asked him/accused him of. they asked if he had a LINKEDIN page to which he responded no. once he told them no, they continued to harp...
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    long time no see - needing help

    thank you all for your responses - it's much appreciated! @Jason Perry - to answer some of your questions, the FPEB board members were the ones that said he was not deployable and could not re-enlist. they told him that because his EAOS was in october 2020, he "might as well finish up his...
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    long time no see - needing help

    so nobody is aware of whether my husband is eligible for a severance at the end of his contract then? since he is unable to re-enlist, make rank or deploy due to the medboard?
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    long time no see - needing help

    his neuro already suggested a new medboard and my husband declined. that was the toughest year of his life - and the stress from it all made his migraines worse than they have ever been. for the sake of his health, he will not be doing another medical board and his neuro then agreed because of...
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    long time no see - needing help

    i apologize - but i have no idea what that means. you mentioned buying out option - but we're asking about severance because his career was pretty much put to a halt.
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    long time no see - needing help

    hi all! haven't been here in forever it seems like. for those that don't know my husband's situation - he was found FIT three times through the IPEB, FPEB, etc for 5-6 days a week migraines due to the fact that he achieved sailor of the year twice in five years time. he was told that he was...
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    new MEB in six months...

    Thanks, will check into it. Appreciate all the feedback here.
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    new MEB in six months...

    hello - for those that have never seen me on here, my husband went through a meb, fpeb and petition for relief, and was found FIT each time. his referring condition are severe migraines that occur 5-6 days out of the week [his VA list was a mile long with his blood pressure issues, sleep apnea...
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    FOUND FIT THREE TIMES.....now what?

    Thank you! It looks as if a civilian lawyer is warranted at this time. Just unsure if we need to wait to do this, or have him go through the MEB again in six months. (His neurologist says he will be putting him back up if the migraines persist as frequently as they have)
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    FOUND FIT THREE TIMES.....now what?

    sorry to hear you all are going through the same, but happy to see another spouse on here advocating as much as they can for their husband/service member. throughout the entire process, my husband made sure to let any and every body know that he wasn't out to get the highest ratings ever - if he...
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