Well ladies and gentlemen... after 3 years and 5 months it has finally come to an end. After fighting and waiting I finally recieved an email that said ... no change to be made.... while it sucks, it is what it is. My life won't change any and I will continue to do what I have been doing. Thank you all for the support and advice throughout the years. I hope thise still waiting get a happier outcome. Good luck !!!!