That is unfortunate to hear about the commands giving servicemembers a hard time. Honestly, it is not up to them. I am enrolled in the Navy Safe Harbor Wounded Warrior. They helped me tremendously. They put a new roof on my house 15K and new heating and AC unit 8K in cost. It is not about the money, so many resources that can help out Sailors. Each branch has a wounded warrior unit. Out of my 21 plus years of active service, this is one of the best-kept secrets. Also, compassionate and genuine people. My coordinator is awesome. Great Lakes coordinator.