Ya I got my ratings back for the VA and DOD and accepted the 19 AUG, just waiting on orders now.
I'm sorry your stuff has been moving at a snails pace. You can try calling the VA claim status line at 1(800)-827-1000. If they say "A proposed rating has been decided" and they are "trying to notify you" then you can ask for a copy of the letter to be emailed to you so you can at least see what they rated you at. Hell also bring up the change of address and see if you can update that over the phone too.