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Ok fellas, I dont want to hijack the thread, and I dont mean to ramble, but I am having a moment and if it is too much of one, please let me know and I will edit or delete it. Its gots stories (all related) both funny and said, tears, blood, and kungfoo....
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As a prior enlisted now retired 04, I find his attitude unacceptable. I really hate condescending jackasses. Just know that he is powerless over you. He has no right to berate or intimidate anyone. It sucks that there are officers out there like that. I also knew many CSMs like that where junior enlisted would fear being around them.
tony292, I completely agree. I had an experience that taught me the lesson of the "military game" all the back in training.
I will post this story about a 2-Star run-in I witnessed. Hopefully this will renew your faith in the system.
Once upon a time, I remember when I was at Keesler AFB for tech school July-Aug 09', it was the same base the AETC/CC 2-Star commanded from, at the time Major General Alfred K. Flowers. He would ride around in his staff car with his 2-Star placard on the front and wait to see if airmen marching in details would or would not salute him.
One time, I saw a group of knuckleheads not salute his car and he slammed on his breaks, put the car in reverse (he was on a 2 lane road and some lady, probably his wife) was in the car. He put the car in park, got out of the car onto the side walk, ran in front of them (keep in mind, his car is still in the road).
The detail halted, and stared like he was a lion or something. He then said "We'll, someone call attention", they did, and then he said "Now what do you do?". They stalled again, and he said "Salute dammit!".
They did this shaky, crappy salute, and he saluted back and started yelling at them at the top of his lungs. He was in blues that day, so it was a Monday. Yelling. A 2-Star General, in Full Service Dress, yelling MTI style at these kids, some with no stripes. As funny as that was (I wanted to fall a part laughing, but if he saw me....), we were probably 15 feet away and completely frightened.
With was he said, he did not degrade them, at all. He did say that they were "turkeys" for not saluting. But he yelled about respect and what the salute means and custom, courtesies.These kids were shaking like crazy, but hell, he was a 2-Star, so it was one of the most frightening things any of us had seen to that point. He was only 15 feet away from my group, but we kept on moving. He yelled at them as if they were his children, and, as silly as it sounds, like he had a deep regard for them. Like he was proud they were willing to serve and greatful. But of course, with yelling.
Like I saw, NOW I look back, and its one of the funniest memories I had.
But here is why... I had already done some ready on my chain of command (dad taught me that) and I of General Flowers already. He was in Vietnam, prior enlisted, commissioned at 14 years as a MSgt. He was an air transportation in vietnam when enlisted, where he carried wounded and dead men out of the jungle at night. Then he was finance and had many commands. The man had been there, done that. When he retired he had a total of 46 years ADAF. I actually shook his hand (base cleaning detail before classes kicked off). He has is a loving, warm, and gentle man, but he had a hardness to him and you could tell he used it when needed. I knew HE meant well, and it showed.
Point to my long rambling post (sorry, I got a couple coors in me), There defintely is a way to handle things. Gen. Flowers, for the lack of better words, "scared the living daylights" out of us. He didnt say "I'm a general, blah blah blah", he was yelling at airmen because of the customs and courtesies, not that "I am a General and I can do this...". But he left and didnt say "Give me a 341" or "what squadrons are you with". That is what made that situation effective.
And this is why I also think the 0-4 in this situation was an ass. Reporting you? why is that necessary? Ask, if there is a serious no b/s response then he should lay off.
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Now, here is my take on it.
I work on a SOF base, Hurlburt Field, and with people dying in battle and suicides (i really hate those), we have casket drive by's and "commando pushups" for SOF/JSOC operators who have died. I had a several friends and familiy members give their lives for the sake of freedom. The most recent one was a CCT that died 2 years ago. SSgt Forrest Sibley, he was a good good friend of mine. A
4-time Bronze Star operator. Shot by taliban dressed up as gate guards. Apparently it was so close apparently he couldn't even fire it went on so fast. Point blank. Shame, because he was a damn good shot too. I am actually tearing up writing this. He was stationed at Pope, but spent alot of time here at Hurlburt.
I still visit his grave on Pensacola. I make the 34 mi. drive. Every year. I honor him. I touch his grave and I talk to him. I cry. He gave everything for me and you. I am an emotional guy by nature. I am pass the grieving, but now at the thanking. It keeps me humble, and thankful. When I do my job as an aircraft mechanic, I know there are guys that would, and ARE giving the same risk. This is the reality of the job, and this is one of the realities of the war we are fighting in the military we volunteered to join.
I have cried at the Star Spangled Banner, and at especially at Taps, almost every night (I live on base), I try not to tear up. I loved Forrest like a brother, and all he wanted to do is protect me and you. I love these customs and courtesies. I love saluting officers, especially 0-6 and maybe some 0-4 and 0-5 if I know them; because I trust they are making the best decisions they can. It is my job to trust them, and they know that. That is what the swore an oath to do.
I agree. It is important we honor these things. I salute the flag for not only the guys gone, but the guys that are still going, and what we stand for. It provides the honor due, but also the healing of know that those who Gave All will Not Be Forgotten.
BUT even though I have the upmost respect for the flag and customs/courtesies, if I saw a guy saying "dude, I have a disease" and the SSB is playing, and he falls, are you gonna just keep standing there at attention? Or you gonna pick him up, help him inside, because he has an illness? People are the important resource that other people have, and some people don't act that way.